Every new parent has faced the challenge of soothing a crying baby while receiving a flood of advice from those around them: "Take them for a walk!" "Try feeding them!" "Maybe they need a diaper change?" You try everything, yet the crying continues.
Crying is a baby’s primary way of communicating. It signals hunger, discomfort, fatigue, or the need for closeness. In most cases, there is an identifiable reason for the crying, and sometimes, addressing the cause helps soothe the baby. However, not all crying can be immediately resolved.
Hunger – Babies have small stomachs and need frequent feeding. Look for cues such as rooting, lip-smacking, or sucking on hands as early signs of hunger.
Dirty Diaper – Some babies are particularly sensitive to a wet or soiled diaper, especially if they have diaper rash or skin irritation.
Fatigue – Overstimulated or overtired babies may struggle to fall asleep. A quiet, dark environment and gentle rocking can help.
Need for Closeness – Babies feel comforted when held, enjoying warmth, cuddling, and the familiar sound of a heartbeat. A baby carrier can provide closeness while giving parents mobility.
Colic – Some healthy babies experience prolonged, unexplained crying, often in the evening, clenching fists and kicking. While the exact cause is unknown, colic typically resolves by three to four months.
Gas – Many newborns experience gas-related discomfort due to air swallowing during feeding or crying, immature digestion, or dietary factors. Burping during and after feeds can help.
Temperature Sensitivity – Babies are sensitive to being too hot or too cold. Dress them in one more layer than an adult wears and check their belly for warmth, rather than their hands or feet.
Physical Discomfort – A stray hair wrapped around a finger, an itchy fabric, or an unnoticed tight snap can cause distress. If your baby is inconsolable, undressing them in a warm room and checking for irritants may help.
Teething – Most babies begin teething around six months, experiencing discomfort before the tooth appears.
Overstimulation – Too much noise, activity, or interaction can make it difficult for babies to settle. A calm environment helps them regulate.
Boredom – Babies enjoy interaction. Talking, singing, or changing their position can engage and soothe them.
Illness – Crying due to illness may sound different—weaker, prolonged, or more intense. A fever in babies under three months (above 38°C) requires immediate medical attention.
Sounds like a fan, washing machine, or white noise machine can be calming.
Rocking, walking, using a baby swing, or a stroller ride can be soothing.
Light tummy massages or appropriate essential oils can help relax the baby.
A change of scenery, such as going outside or standing by an open window, can help.
Offering a pacifier, clean finger, or breastfeeding can provide comfort.
A bath can mimic the womb’s soothing sensation.
A snug wrap helps some babies feel secure.
Lullabies and gentle rhythms can be comforting.
Despite all efforts, some babies cry excessively. Caring for a constantly crying baby can be overwhelming. If needed: