You’ve been waiting for this moment—the moment you become a mother. You anticipated it with excitement and hope, and now it has finally arrived. Everyone around you is celebrating, yet you find yourself wanting to bury your head in a pillow and cry.
Postpartum depression is receiving increasing attention, but not everyone fully understands what it means or how to recognize the signs. Understanding the difference between baby blues and postpartum depression is essential for seeking the right support.
After childbirth, many women experience a wide range of emotions, sometimes conflicting and overwhelming. Feelings of sadness, frustration, anxiety, or irritability are common and are often referred to as "baby blues." However, in more severe cases, these emotions can escalate into postpartum depression, which may significantly impact daily functioning and, in extreme cases, even lead to thoughts of self-harm or harm to the baby.
Approximately 80% of new mothers experience baby blues after childbirth. Symptoms typically include:
These symptoms usually appear within the first few days after birth and resolve on their own within two weeks.
Postpartum depression shares many symptoms with baby blues but is more intense, persistent, and long-lasting. It can include:
In rare cases, postpartum depression can escalate into postpartum psychosis, which may involve:
Because the symptoms of baby blues and postpartum depression can overlap, it's important to understand the duration and severity of symptoms to determine when to seek help.
Both baby blues and postpartum depression are common conditions that affect a large number of new mothers. If you’re struggling, you don’t have to go through it alone—there are resources and professionals available to support you.
Postpartum depression does not have a single cause; rather, a combination of factors can contribute to its development, including:
Certain factors increase the risk of developing postpartum depression, including:
Because postpartum depression can sometimes be mistaken for normal postpartum exhaustion or mood changes, it may be difficult to recognize when intervention is needed.
If you are unsure whether you’re experiencing baby blues or postpartum depression, consider speaking with:
A family physician
A women’s health specialist
A lactation consultant
They may use screening tools like the Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale to assess your emotional well-being and help determine if additional support is needed.
Childbirth doesn’t just affect mothers—it has a significant impact on partners as well. Research shows that about 10% of fathers experience postpartum depression, typically between three to six months after the baby is born.
Common triggers for paternal postpartum depression include:
Addressing postpartum depression in both parents helps the entire family adjust and thrive. Seeking professional guidance can provide valuable tools for managing stress, anxiety, and emotional changes during this transition.
If you suspect a new mother is struggling with postpartum blues or depression, here’s how you can help:
Many new mothers forget to eat due to exhaustion and stress. Help by:
Daily fresh air and movement—even just a short walk—can significantly improve mood.
Let her know that:
Encourage her to take time for herself—even an hour away can be refreshing. Offer to watch the baby while she:
If postpartum depression persists or worsens despite self-care strategies, professional treatment may be necessary.
Treatment Approaches May Include:
Yes, some medications are considered safe during breastfeeding. Always consult a physician for guidance on treatment options that suit your specific situation.
In some cases, postpartum depression may improve naturally, but this is not always the case. It’s crucial to stay vigilant and recognize when professional help is needed. If symptoms persist beyond a few weeks or begin to interfere with daily life, it’s important to seek support from a healthcare provider.
If you or someone you know is struggling with postpartum depression, help is available.
Leumit offers a network of professionals who can provide diagnosis, support, and treatment. You deserve support. Reach out today.